Thursday, 2 October 2025

My Experence With Prostate Challenges is a Rough One

A side-view diagram of the pelvic area.


I now have a new self-appointed position: The  Minister of  Action Against Prostate Cancer. Prostate cancer is a serious problem, especially in Jamaica. At the early stages, there are no signs. Some of you will be busy going from girl to girl while the cancer is growing from day to day. Many of you will be on herbs every day, and you swear you can never get prostate cancer. I lost a friend recently who was taking herbs. His PSA was low, but the cancer was growing.

Some people, when they suspect they have prostate challenges, will start drinking soursop leaf tea every day and rejoice that their PSA is going down. The PSA might be going down, and the cancer is going up. I just lost a friend two weeks ago with a similar experience. If the prostate cancer metastasises, then the horse has gone through the gate. Sometimes the cancer spreads even after the prostate gland has been removed. One person told me that he ended up getting stage 4 cancer after his prostate was removed. If my memory serves me right, his medical expenses cost him approximately JAD3 million monthly. He is still alive and fighting.

I am lucky that it seems mine was caught early. The doctor suspected something was wrong, and a blood test was done. PSA was elevated. So I was off to the urologist. The urologist had to do his/her checks. So in seconds, I was on my side with pants pulled down, waiting for the doctor to do the DRE. That's the check, which many men fear more than they fear a gunman.

The doctor explained to me that by feeling the prostate, the doctor can easily pick up abnormalities. While the doctor was checking me, I was concerned about my health and not about the doctor sticking his finger in my bottom. Sex was far from my mind because I don't connect sex with my bottom.

The doctor felt something abnormal, and a biopsy had to be done. I was unfortunate that I got an infection after. I experienced excruciating pain for about a month. Sometimes the tears were streaming down my face, but I was not crying. I had to go to the bathroom sometimes five times for the night. Each time I urinate, it felt like someone inserted a firestick inside of me.

The biopsy is just one of the many tests one has to do. The blood test, ECG, bone scan, MRI, and two ultrasounds. All these tests and seeing doctors cost about JAD 300,000. The urologist requires all these tests to be done so he knows the state of your health. My blood pressure has to be reduced to normal before the operation.

I felt I was ready for the operation, and then there was a report indicating that all is not well with the kidneys. So off you go to see the nephrologist. Oh, I missed one—I had to go to the oncologist before.

Now it is waiting for the big day, which will be life-changing. If you have been doing your annual prostate checks, then it will not be a death sentence for you. It could be a death sentence for that little fellow for a while after the operation. You will have to wear a catheter for sometime to extract the urine from your body. 

This is the big shocker. You might not die from prostate cancer, but when you see the cost for the operation to remove the prostate and related medical care, the cancer might no longer be a problem, but a heart attack might be. The cost of the operations can range from JAD3 million to JAD4 million.

Check your status now. What you don't know can kill you. I forgot to tell you about another test. I had to do a sperm test. I went to the laboratory to give my sperm, and the gentleman who attended to me said, "Sir, you need to give us a sample of your sperm." 

I said to him, "At my age, I don't remember how to do that. He got the sample subsequently.

Thanks to those who came forward to assist. The sad thing is that at least three people reached out to me but I don't have their contact information. Their initials are JP, JE and TW. Please send me a WhatsApp message at 876 816-5261.

Member—mek di doctor check yu prostate NOW!!! Mi can' Bark Di Trute any louder fi yu, fi 'ear. Yu 'ear mi!


Undergoing an ECG test.

MRI Machine

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9 comments:

  1. Wow!Thanks for this Prostatic expose.Those who have eyes to read or ears to hear follow Bark di trute don't allow. cancer if present to metastasize.Action,Action,mans and mans.
    Women ,sisters, wives, girlfriends,mothers grandmothers pastors congregations encourage mans and mans to go get checked.
    BPH or PC can be treated successfully.

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    1. Read this Vernon and it is exceedingly well written and very informative. Keep being positive and I hope and pray your message will strike a chord with other men to get their yearly or half yearly check-ups.

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  2. Thank you Vernon for your candid description of your experience. Wishing for you the best of health in the future.

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  3. Thanks Vernon to put it out there .This information is very vital to all of us men out there ,who doesn’t take this illness seriously.Ll I can say Vernon you have place your own card on the table for us to follow.

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  4. So glad it has been caught early. You are the 3rd gentleman I know recently diagnosed. And as you said, if diagnosed early, is very curable. Women get mammograms and pap tests routinely after a certain age. Men should get their prostate checked after a certain age as well and periodically thereafter!!

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  5. Goodmorning Vernon, I am truly sorry to learn of your prostate issues. I too have had to do 4 prostate related surgeries. I would love to share with you my experience.

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    1. Send your story by WhatsApp to 876 816-5261.

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  6. Thank you for being so venerable about you health issues, and the way you send it across is engaging
    I wish for you God's continuous healing guidance and blessings and i pray you overcome.
    I really dont know how a male gather sexual thought while getting a rectal examination.

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